Baby, it’s cold outside. Well, at least it is here in the Northeast. I’ve been going to bed with socks on. Yeah, I know hubby doesn’t think it’s sexy either. So what can a woman do to crank up her libido during the cold winter months? If you’re like me, first ditch those socks, then try some fun and flirty games to warm-up not only your toes but your sweetheart.
Yep, pull out the kid’s old twister game. Strip down naked and spin the wheel. Wherever you land, and whatever body parts get tangled, it’s great fun.
You can buy specially marked dice for this game, or you can make up your own. Simply write a list numbered 2-12, then give each number an act, position, or even a location. Sitting down with your partner to make up this list can be great foreplay for the mind. Then roll the dice and enjoy.
Take an empty glass jar and fill it with a bunch of new sex positions. Then each night when you’re feeling adventurous and tired of the missionary position or whatever position you always fall back on, pick a slip of paper out of the jar. If you’re more of a visual person, you can always print out some pictures from the web. *wink*
One of my favorites. Why? Because I wear a lot more layers of clothing than my hubby. So, I love the odds. If you want to make it a bit sexier put on some lingerie—a G-string, a lacy bra, and a garter belt with sheer stockings, and surprise you partner with each layer you remove. You can play this one right in bed after you tuck the kiddies in. If you want to UP the ante, let the winner choose what they’d like to do after the cards are put away.
Location, Location, Location
Yep, we hear realtors natter on about this all the time. How important location is. Yet, most sex acts take place in the bedroom. So why not be adventurous and mix it up. The shower, the tub, under the dining room table, back seat of the car. Who gets to decide? Get the Monopoly Game out and make each set of properties a different location. The first set collected is your location.
Blind Man in the Buff
This is a twist on the old parlor game Blind Man’s Bluff, except you don’t play it with a room full of people. Well, you could if you are into that kind of thing. Get naked, blindfold your partner, then try to touch any part of his or her body with a feather. If you don’t dash away quick enough and your partner catches you, he or she wins and you have to do the act of his or her choosing.
So, is it cold in your neck of the woods? Have these ideas sparked your libido to crank up the heat? I hope so. And if you have a game you want to add to the list, I’d love you to post it. Have fun and stay warm!