It’s time to celebrate being women in the 21st century.
Main Entry: mas·tur·ba·tion
: erotic stimulation especially of one’s own genital organs commonly resulting in orgasm and achieved by manual or other bodily contact exclusive of sexual intercourse, by instrumental manipulation, occasionally by sexual fantasies, or by various combinations of these agencies
– mas·tur·bate /mas-tr-bt/ verb
YES YOU CAN! AND YOU SHOULD!
Did you know:
- Masturbation can relieve pain (backaches, period pain, headaches…your body releases oxytocin…a natural pain reliever.)
- Masturbation can ward of those nasty yeast infections (just DON’T use your own saliva as lubricant)
- Masturbation makes you more open to sex…makes you want it more…your partner will thank you!
- Masturbation helps with insomnia (your body releases dopamine…a relaxant!)
- Masturbation helps with stress (that dopamine again!)
- Masturbation helps you to know what you like…
Yes! Yes! Yeeeeeeeeees!!!!!!!
So what is it with us girls that we feel naughty if we touch ourselves? It’s a God-Given right and talent for men to ‘whack off’!! It’s probably one of the sexiest things we’ve ever seen! (And if you haven’t….please do!)
Her breath was torn from her lungs. If it weren’t for the lingering moans of his bedmate, she was sure the woman would’ve heard her.
She couldn’t look away from his eyes, couldn’t risk seeing the man who’d ruined her for all in such an erotic practice.
He obviously couldn’t look away from her either, his focus on her gaze binding them in a primitive merging.
The intimacy was too much. She needed to break his spell so she did the only logical thing and let her focus drop to the hand that was wrapped tightly around his…his…
Her eyes widened at the sight. He stroked himself in long fluid movements, the muscles in his tan forearms flexing with each sensual pull of the most impressive piece of flesh she’d ever imagined.
The stories must then be true. Sex could be pleasurable.
It was the most beautiful thing she’d ever seen. So honest…so intimate. Something she’d yearned for her whole life. The freedom to enjoy something so…primal.
Her attention was transfixed to the strong hand that stroked his rock hard flesh…to the drop of semen that beaded at the engorged head.
That was when she knew her life would never be the same.
She wanted so much to reach down and touch herself, to ignite her throbbing flesh along with him. But she didn’t dare, didn’t really know how.
She risked a quick glance back to his knowing gaze. His beautiful pale green eyes hooded and filled with ecstasy, they’d never left hers.
She could tell by the increase in his breathing, the clenching of his jaw muscles and the tightening and movement of the large muscles in his arms that he was near his limit. When his face took on a feral grimace and a growl escaped his throat she let her eyes drop from his again…and watched…as his cock jerked and spasmed in powerful waves sending his come across the bed.
Her mouth was dry. Her underwear were wet. She licked her lips and glanced back to the face that had changed so much in the last twelve years, yet a face she knew so well.
That’s when she saw it. The bead of sweat that trickled down his temple, his sensual mouth quirked into a small smile…
and then he winked.
(A little snippet from my cuuuuuurrrrrrent (4 years current!) piece of work!)
So why do most women feel it is so wrong!
Cause no matter what…when it comes to sex, society is STILL living in the stoneage. We are caught in a technological war where sex is portrayed as filthy and pornographic giving the romantic, sensual healthy sex we here at ChickSwagger all believe in a bad name!
It’s time to start a revolution girls! Time to take back our right to make sex a beautiful, healthy practice! Time to stock that toy box with goodies! (Check out sexology-101-giggle-giggle-for-adults-only in our archives for more tidbits!) and show that partner what you’re made of! Masturbate for him / her. Make them wild with need!
So….how the hell DO you masturbate?
Here are a few starting points!! (not that I’m an expert or anything…snicker, snicker)
There are actually a few types of orgasms a woman can have! (lucky us!!)
A clitoral orgasm (that little bundle of nerves at the top of your labia, you know…those orgasms you’ve been having since seventh grade…on the edge of your math class seat, mom’s washing machine, that abcrunch machine at the gym…(don’t ask!))
A G-spot/Vaginal orgasm (the G-spot is actually the inner workings of the clitoris!) Wooo Hoot!!! (Rachel is throwing that glitter shit right now…)
You need to find some much needed privacy, some lube and maybe a really great, sexy scene in your favorite book and find your inner explorer.
Then Play With Yourself!!!! Find out what makes you tingle, what hurts, and what drives you wild! (oh, PS…that G-spot thing is on the front wall of your vagina about 1.5 inches up…if you reach in there and fiddle around you may just find “it DOES exist!!!!”)
The clitoris is your best bet when starting off. Be sure you are well lubricated (that awesome sex scene in your favorite book should’ve done the trick!). Use your fingers to circle your clitoris, all the folds of your labia (remember…the clitoris extends underneath your labia down the sides of your vagina!!) and the entrance to your vagina. Find out what type of pressure, speed, touch you like…what makes you orgasm…
When you become an expert at knowing your body…Show your partner what you like! Masturbate for him…Talk to him…guide him…there is nothing sexier than a woman who is eager and can ask for what she wants. Put Sister Mary Margaret and her words of fear and ignorance right out of your head and find pleasure in your own body and your mate’s!
There is nothing more simple and sacred than sharing something so intimate and erotic.
What is your view on masturbation? Could you do it for your mate? Does/would it turn you on to see your mate pleasure themselves? As a kid were you brainwashed?
(psssst….He’s watching you!!!) (I just really liked this pic so had to add him….tee hee…)