How can I top Josie’s blog, Yes, Virginia…You can touch yourself ?
I can’t. Yet, I am tasked with following that great piece of work. *sigh*
So if I can’t beat ‘er, I’m going to join her. (Get your mind out of the gutter folks)
Because I’m about to put it where it belongs…in the bedroom. Or the kitchen, or shower, or maybe even in the middle of a country road. I’m talking about helping your man locate that “G-spot” with his tool, not his hand. Josie told you how to find it, now let’s talk about the best position that lets him grind it.
It may take some research on your part, but studying for this test, is the best cramming session you’ll ever have.
Let’s start with his attributes. Every male physique has its own unique special quality. Whether it be his size, girth, curve, stamina, or all of the above. His hammer is his best tool, provided you show him how to do the job right. So don’t leave the positioning up to him. Be part of the generation who won’t settle for faking it—we’re into taking charge and making it.
The missionary position:
Some say it’s romantic, up close, personal. Others say it’s boring. If you’re tired of it, than you need to change it up.
To do that, you’ve received you’re first assignment: exam your man’s tool—not just with your eyes but your hands, your lips, your tongue. Make the task enjoyable for both of you. Think about which way he curves and twitches in comparison to your own body.
This will give you both an incredible view. You can always use a pillow under your hips to help. I personally like to watch his chest, abs and biceps flex, along with surrendering control.
If this still doesn’t stroke your inner core, raise your feet to his shoulders while he stands off the side of the bed.
Change your location: to the desk, or the hood of his car.
Use your imagination and study the effects. Face each other and position your legs whatever way works best for you.
Seriously this is a lab experiment, no books are necessary, unless you’re getting your mind fired up with a great scene (like Josie’s — *fan myself*) or you’ve picked up a copy of the Kama Sutra as a study guide.
Yet even with all this studying, sometimes you just get a B+. So let’s get on top and make that grade an A.
Take him on the bed… or on a chair
Stand him against the wall and lean back … farther …
If you’re still struggling to achieve that A+, switch it up completely and have him get behind your studies.
It can be done lying on the bed, the floor, a bean bag chair—you name it.
Bend over the kitchen counter and wiggle your ass, then tell him to pick up your ankles and enter you from behind. What may drive you both wild at this point, is for you to twerk, and twerk it good.
Don’t forget to really get into the moment. If your mind is somewhere else, other than the fantasy you’re creating with your partner, it may not happen at all. So if it takes dinner and wine, do it. If it requires a little kink—add it.
There are so many more positions to try, I could go on for days, but that’s for you to start working on. Sex between consenting adults should be a beautiful thing filled with love and passion. You should be free to experiment, because half the fun, is trial and error.
Remember, women have two ways of having an orgasm, so never leave yourself teetering at the edge of ecstasy. (I may have to use that for a title) Take charge and go for it. If he finishes before you, then finish yourself off, or let him do it for you. You never know, watching you fly, may get him ready for round two. Either way, he’ll feel better when you both achieve your goal.
I am inclined to add the disclaimer that sex in public is illegal and there are cameras EVERYWHERE. So if you engage, be prepared for the consequences. *grins*
Have you read the Kama Sutra? Have you shared it with your partner? Would you give it as a wedding gift to a friend? We’d love to hear your opinion about helping him grind you’re GREAT G-spot.